Personal Love and Respect

My sistars (bioligical sisters and our sister from another blood - yes weird I know) and I were talking about random things that lead to Instagram and hashtags.  My sister then said that there are these girls that post photos of themselves and hashtagging it "whores" or "bitches".  I personally felt that it was wrong of them to do so.  I know that it is their post and their life but I hate how girls call themselves such low labels be it a joke or not.  It's because they are worth more than that!

My mother always told me that we should learn to love ourselves first and respect ourselves first (after God of course) before we can love another person.  The way we love ourselves reflect on the outside and that others will be able to see it.  And from that, they will know that we are worth so much.  I know there are plenty of times that I hate myself and feel so insecure but I would never call myself a whore or a bitch because I know I am worth more than that, I respect myself enough to label myself that and that I am none of those terms.

Many girls complain how guys treat them like trash and often times these are the girls that label themselves these.  If you or in this case those girls to be treated like a queen that they deserve, then they should love and respect yourselves and think of yourself highly yet a humble way.  If you treat yourself with respect, people will follow.

I know there would be times that it is hard not to call someone those but let's be the bigger person here and leave the name calling out of our systems.  I am still in the process of bettering myself and I pray that God will fill my heart with happiness and love (for both others and myself). I also pray that He may show me my self worth and that I will learn to love me and cut myself some slack (I am my worst enemy and biggest critic).  And I pray that He will do the same to you.

I don't know if this post makes sense any more and this is just a post regarding my thoughts and feelings.  This is also personal and I hope that no one gets offended by it.

Peace & Love!